Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Road To Success - 6 Steps That Will Get You Out Of Trouble & Reach Your Dreams

Once you get started in your road to success, soon you’ll encounter roadblocks and barriers. What will happen to your success will depend on how you’ll confront them. Look at the 6 steps that will get you out of trouble and let you finally triumph.

1) Exploit The Barriers For Your Purpose
If you commit and apply your effort towards your goal, signs showing you the direction will pop up. And with them, soon barriers will arise. You’ll have to look beyond the barrier, finding both alternatives and motivation to carry on.

Remember that every barrier has two components: one opposing you and one supporting you. Every barrier help you clarify your goal and understand the real life process underlying it. Think on how the barrier could be supporting you in terms of learned processes and resources you can use and the barrier is showing.

Only those who can see beyond the initial failures and disappointments can transform this painful road into the road to success.

2) Exploit Barrier Weakness Instead Of Quitting
Don’t be another one who makes excuses to quit. If you want success, you have to discard the verb “to quit” from your glossary. Hard work is a necessary ingredient to success. Not quitting is the first step of perseverance.
Not quitting is an art you can learn. There are forces in the difficulties you are facing that stimulate your willingness to quit. Your turning point is in understanding that these forces are different.

Different parts of the barrier are opposing you in a different way. This will help you in understanding where your barrier is weaker and will suggest an attack point on your behalf. Concentrate on this weak spot, and will be easier to not quit.

3) Exploit The Power Of Thinking Small
Thinking big is the great motivator, but will also set big expectations that are going to be easily defeated by the challenges you are going to face towards you success. It seems too much effort is needed, too much time, too much commitment.
The solution is that you have also to think small. Small actions. Do something small towards your goal but do it consistently.

4) Exploit The Power Of Persistence Until Things Become Easier
Not quitting is the first step of perseverance, and perseverance is the most important ingredient of success. The most outstanding example of perseverance is Edison, in his quest for the light bulb (10000 trials before getting a working one is an outstanding effort).

Even if things seem impossible and you have tons of negative feedback, the successful mindset requires you never consider quitting. Once you are in the road, keep running until the next telephone pole. And then until the next one.
This means that you have to keep continuing focusing on the next small step (thinking small) until barriers become first weak, then things become possible. Doing one more step is the second step of perseverance.

5) Exploit Your Own Power
Managing barriers with persistence is the difference between who will do it and who won’t. You have to engage to improve your success skills thus increasing your probability to make it. Your ability to win in the above three points will depend on your ability to improve.

You can improve your ability to overcome barriers and create positive motivation in life for work, health and success on autopilot by just listening your way to success and abundance.

6) Exploit The Power Of The Success Principles
Barriers are a healthy part of the learning process that will lead you from dreams to success. This is a basic principle of success. Every big success is built on overcoming barriers.

Understanding what success means to you and its underlying principles will affect your short and long term performance. Understanding the 7 most important success principles” will improve your ability to cope with barriers and drive your life in your road to success.

If you understand the success principles, persist and improve along the way, your road to success will start tough, but will become easier and easier as you go. You’ll find that your goal is not so far and will enjoy the journey in the meanwhile.
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Tuesday, July 1, 2008

An Articles that Will Make You Trully Understand (Begin with The End in Mind)

The principle difference between a human and an animal is that a human possesses self-awareness and conscience while an animal does not. People usually take things for granted. Let me share with you a story...

Bill was at a pub late at night discussing business and realised that it was already very late and that his wife was waiting for him on the bed. Dragging his drunken soul, he rushed back, wanting to make it up for her wife's long wait. Once in the room, he immediately hopped onto bed and satisfied the tired soul. After which, he went to the toilet and was shocked when he saw his wife. "Wasn't that you on the bed?" He shrieked. "That was my mother. She dropped by to visit."

Many a time, we tend to assume and take things for granted.

Now, I have an exercise for you to do. And I hope you do it diligently because through this exercise, you will benefit aplenty. You will appreciate goal setting a whole lot great deal more.

Imagine, you happened to walk pass a funeral ceremony. You saw your family members participating in the ceremony. You joined in the ceremony and could feel the sadness in the environment. Then, you strolled to the coffin and looked at the deceased. You see your face.

Now, (regardless of your religion or beliefs) you read the programme for the ceremony and learnt that 4 different groups of people will be giving speeches on you.

Bring out a pen and a paper now. Write down what you wish to hear (all the good comments) from these 4 group of people.

  1. Parents
  2. Best Friend
  3. Superior in your organisation
  4. Your subordinate in your organisation

Spend about fifteen minutes and focus on what you really wish to hear from them, all the good things about you that you wish they will say.

"Begin with the End in Mind"

Take a moment and reflect on the speeches that your recorded. Do you already fulfil all the good points that they mentioned about you?

If you hadn't been communicating with your parents, do you wish to see them on stage and say, "I don't understand him. Ask his friends to give the speech instead."? If not, shouldn't you be communicating more with your parents, more than the yes, okay, ya, sure?

This simple exercise is for you to appreciate "Begin with the End in Mind". With the notes that you written down on the speech, use it as the list of goals that you want to achieve in your life. Start making changes to your life. Unless you wish that no one will speak good of you in your funeral.

Yoong Kheong Fong is the webmaster of We Care Tuition Agency (http://www.wecaretuition.com). He also gives consultation in Internet Marketing and offline Marketing. You can read more articles at http://www.articles.wecaretuition.com/ or visit his blog at http://www.furykid.blogspot.com

Yoong Kheong Fong is constantly improving himself by attending inspirational and motivational talks, meeting people with positive mindset and regularly read up books on self-improvement. You may wish to contact him at yoongkheong@hotmail.com for sharing of opinions on such areas.

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